Thursday, January 30, 2020

Skiing Forreal

  Took the boys up to Eldora a couple of times now, it was overall positive and fun both times.  Super proud of them.  There have been a few bumps in the road along the way, of course.  The first time, we started on the bunny slope with magic carpet, then slowly progressed up from there.  Ryker wanted to sit with me in the lift, so AJ was awesome and let him do that for awhile.  Then when he was ready, he started sitting with AJ a time or two.  He has pretty much been flexible on seating arrangements since then.  
  I kept reminding the boys about the fundamentals they learned, most importantly how to slow down by turning and not just doing the pizza.  And I’ve been learning along with them, at nearly the same pace.  It’s been fun!  AJ had a hard time operationalizing this at first.  Poor guy would head straight down the hill, try to pizza to slow down, but soon realize this wasn’t working well, and then sit down on the back of his skis.  Usually stopped in time eventually, but a couple of times he flew straight into the mesh safety fence!  Never actually got hurt, but his pride took some hard blows, especially when the Eldora employee came to help him out of the mesh once or twice.  Had to have a moment to process the frustration and situation and have a few tears.  Meanwhile Ryker is standing waiting for us for 10 minutes, then finally said, “well I’m going again, see you!” and got in line and hopped on the lift with a stranger and kept skiing.  After another couple of minutes to process the feels, along with my cheerleading, AJ agreed to get back on the horse.  Started seeing him improve with controlling his speed and kinda start turning to brake a few runs after that! 
  The second time we went up, we were among the last cars to get a parking spot, due to ill-prepared cars in the canyon causing an extra 1.5 hrs of delays.  Good thing we made it, since it was another beautiful ski day with perfect conditions and fresh powder!  This time we skipped the bunny hill and went right to the 3 person lift, staying there for a few runs.  Boys both did well.  I saw them both progressing their skills and doing good turns better and better.  After a quick break and saying hi to our Addington friends, we made a group decision to head up the big lift together.  There were no green routes up there, but how much harder can the blues be?!  We soon found out.  
 Turns out blues are about twice as steep as greens, adapting to them is difficult!  Well it was for me and AJ anyhow.  It was slow going at first, then we both kinda got used to them and were able to start doing some good turns.  Then the hill started winning; we both had several good wipeouts.  Putting skis back on after they pop off while on the side of a hill can be difficult!  We kept slogging through.  I would go and then wait for AJ, then we’d go again.  I started getting the hang of this hill, so stopped to wait for AJ and coach him a bit.  Looking up at him, I saw him going fast and making some really good turns, at least 3 of them in a row.  I could tell he was approaching his speed limit, then passed it, and went down in an epic twirling tumble, losing both skis.  Took him awhile to sit up, I think he was in a bit of pain.  Finally he sat up, found his skis, and started scooting down to me.  I was walking up to him as best I could, poor fella!  He was mad at the world; mad he had crashed; mad at at me for ‘making us do the blues’ (it was a group decision!).  He was just mad; and sad.  “I’m never doing this hill again!”  After 5-10 minutes, we got him back up and continued on.  Only one way down after all!  
  Once again, Ryker was far ahead of us, waiting patiently for awhile, then continued on at his own pace.
  So proud of both of these boys, for learning and adapting and embracing the challenge and fun of the experience!










Sunday, January 26, 2020

First tooth


So cute, we were eating and she came over to me and quietly whispered, “mom, I think this is my tooth!” We had no idea it was loose!

Oh boy’ tooth fairy is coming!!!

Snow

I just read Russell’s post about Dempsey. She continues to be amazingly thoughtful. In recent writings, I’ve made an appearance as I truly am. So darn sweet! After the first day of surgery and me being somewhat ouchy, she drew this note for me. “Mom-I hope you be okay.” Guh. Love her.








Love, 
Mom 

Thursday, January 23, 2020

Math Night!

This lucky guy got to have a little date night tonight with Demps.  Math Night at school, a fun little event; followed by a little Scrumptious ice cream!








Tuesday, January 14, 2020

Melt my heart

I’m in dreary Chicago this week for a work conference.  Been missing the family like crazy when I let myself think about it, and feeling guilty because I’m here while Meg is home on week 2 of being on crutches.  We are so fortunate to have Meg’s parents close by, who are so gracious and willing to help.  We are forever in their debt.  

I’ve been very intentional about using my time to help Meg and spend time with each of the kids ahead of this week.  

One night I tucked everyone in as usual and was preparing for bed myself.  30 mins later Dempsey came in as she often does, usually to get one last goodnight hug and kiss.  This time, she walked straight to my nightstand, put a notecard on it, and then left without saying a word.  Turns out it was the most adorable little note that she had written for me.  After reading and sharing it with Meg, I went to give her a sincere hug and thanked her for being so thoughtful!  I told her I will definitely miss her.  She said ‘you can take the note in your bag if you want to, and look at it whenever you miss us’.

Wow.  How and where did she learn this?  Or is it a base feeling she had and just felt driven to do something about?
She is such a thoughtful sweetheart!